Speaking up!
On the other hand, there is also the aspect of speaking up and saying what we don't trust to the people we live with. It's about openness, honesty and trust - the cornerstones of any good relationship.
In our lives, we constantly encounter situations in which we think or feel things but are hesitant to say them. Be it out of fear of the other person's reaction, out of shame or out of a desire to avoid conflict. In the long run, however, silence can become a burden that strains our relationships and wears us down inside.
It is important to understand that honesty and openness not only serve to express our own feelings and needs, but also to build a deeper connection with those around us. When we dare to share our true thoughts, we show vulnerability and give others the opportunity to really get to know us.
Of course, it's not always easy to open up. It takes courage and self-confidence to face your own fears and insecurities. But it is worth it. Because only through openness can we clarify misunderstandings, resolve conflicts and create genuine closeness.
I therefore encourage you to have the courage to open up and say what's on your mind. Be it an uncomfortable confession, a request for forgiveness or simply an honest compliment. Trust that your fellow confreres, family or friends will treat you with respect and understanding.
~Prior, Fr. Anastasius Reiser